On time, ready to play
Arrive early enough to greet the room. Soft spikes, proper attire, and a phone that stays secondary to the people in front of you.
Events
Events.
New Jersey and New York are on an active weekend calendar. Local chapter play keeps the bond sharp. The Annual Founder’s Tournament brings the Society together under one roof.
On the calendar
Upcoming chapter dates.
High-level dates for the season ahead. Labels show Planned (date held; venue still TBA) or Confirmed (locked for members). For the full NJ/NY season (family Topgolf nights, course days, dinners), see the New Jersey and New York chapter calendars. Exact courses and RSVP live in the members portal after admission. Public venue names are geographic references, not Society partnerships.
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Active metro
New Jersey & New York weekend rhythm.
Most weekends the metro chapter plans activity with kids: family Topgolf nights, family course days, and short household briefs. Members’ rounds and esteemed dinners sit between. Until a date flips to Confirmed for members, treat public listings as Planned, not locked tee times.
Chapter cadence
What a local gathering looks like.
Captains set the schedule for their city. The shape is consistent even when the course changes.
- Family weekends Where the chapter is active, most Saturdays carry Topgolf-style or course activity that welcomes wives and children.
- Round Eighteen holes with members who know the standard. Conversation that goes past small talk by the back nine.
- Table Post-round time for counsel, introductions, and prayer when the group calls for it. Not a networking mixer.
- Guests By invitation only. Captains or the board approve guests where applicable so the room stays intentional.
Flagship
Annual Founder’s Tournament.
Members only. One national gathering each year to mark the founding class, honor the pillars, and play serious golf together.
- Who. Active members in good standing across all chapter cities.
- What. Competitive play, fellowship, and a formal recognition of the founding class.
- When. Date and host city announced to members as chapters come online.
- Why. The Society needs one shared room each year that is larger than any single chapter.
Sample day
A chapter gathering, hour by hour.
Exact times vary by city and season. The shape stays consistent.
Morning
Arrive and align
Members check in, guests are briefed on standards, and the group confirms pace and pairings.
Round
Eighteen holes
Competitive enough to stay sharp. Conversational enough for real counsel by the back nine.
After
Table time
Food, introductions, prayer when called for, and follow-ups that do not die in a group chat.
Getting there
Exclusive transit for Society events.
Part of membership dues supports Samy Soliman, Vice President of Transportation and Physical Security, and his team (including Ramy). On NJ/NY weekend gatherings, members may request professional transit coordination so arrival stays quiet and composed.
The service is exclusive to Society events. It grows with the chapters: more cities mean more team capacity and fleet, not a public car service.
Expectations
How men show up.
Guests are a privilege
Invite only men who could become members. Brief them on standards before the first tee. Captains approve ordinary guests; Society board approval applies for dinners and private-club settings. Full guest policy.
Waivers before the round
Liability paperwork is completed before play, not after an incident. Host venues and insurance requirements are non-negotiable.
No hard sell
Business may follow trust. Pitch decks and card-forcing kill the room. Introductions happen because a brother vouches, not because someone hijacked the dinner.
What’s next
Building the calendar in public.
High-level dates sit above. Exact courses, pairings, and RSVP stay in the members portal after admission, once venues and insurance are locked.
If you are applying now, you are applying into the founding rhythm while Captains seat the first cohorts.